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Summary: Great, Great Great!
Review: A book every woman should own! Lou Paget conducts seminars all accross the country and has put her best findings into one fantastic book. She teaches women (and oh yes, men too!) techniques to empower women and make them feel confident in their abilities and good about themselves. This is not just a 'sex book', but oh so much more!
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Summary: A great gift for that special girlfriend!
Review: This is a fresh approach to the oldest subject in the world. Lou really understands what it Takes!A really good read for you and your girlfriend.
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Summary: Fabulous honesty - what everyone should know about great sex
Review: This book offers a fabulous and wonderfully explicit guide to what every woman should know about her man's body - with regard to how to please him and her. Ms. Paget's extensive research and candidness are magnificently displayed in this work. There is a wealth of knowledge to be gained by even the most sexually experienced. Your pleasure from sex is certain to multiply many fold! To all the men out there wanting a better sex life - read this book; you can teach your partner - male or female - how to really please you!
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Summary: WOW!
Review: There are hundreds of books like this on the market, not to mention 50 new magazine articles each month on "the ONE sex secret he's dying to tell you" etc. etc. Like many single women, I am addicted to the Cosmo articles, but you do reach a point where you feel like you've heard it all before.
I bought this book for fun, expecting the same information but maybe with a slightly new twist. All I can say is WOW! Lou Paget presents fresh and original ideas to spice up your love life, and they really do work.
This isn't a book of sexual positions. If you are like me, however, you probably know enough positions to hold you over for a while. And I've learned that a position is not nearly as important as how it's done. This book mostly focuses on foreplay. There is a chapter on intercourse, but it's mostly stuff I already knew. The information gathered from the rest of the book is far more important. Sex is better when you have incredible foreplay to lead up to it.
Just one caveat: I never used to give my boyfriend hand jobs. I just didn't think I was very good at it. I mean, why do something that he can probably do better, right? Now that I've read this book and learned the techniques, my boyfriend actually asks for handjobs more often than sex. (if you start to have this problem, try the Italian Method, no man can turn down sex after that) ;)
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Summary: Tips you can USE!
Review: I read this book at a friend's when I was cat sitting...and was blown away. I had figured a lot of the best tips out on my own through 15 years of a fabulous marriage, but if only I'd had this years ago! I bought 5 copies and gave them to my closest girlfriends for christmas and ALL have come back and thanked me on subsequent occasions. This is a great book that just lays it all out there step-by-fabulous-step.
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Summary: Very good book
Review: When you will read this book make you feel sexy and confident in the bedroom or maybe even somewhere much naughtier. You won't find any nude pictures in her book either, just drawings. So this is really suitable for anyone who objects to photographic images.
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Summary: it's good
Review: Reviewer: Pat Lewis (from LA) - See all my reviews
i like this book is easy to understand for who have never located a G-spot, or experienced female ejaculation, Dr. Ian glosses right over it like it is a fallacy, or isn't as good as the hype. It is NOT a fallacy and it IS THAT GOOD. So, as I said, this book is great for men who are beginners, who are extremely clueless, who need a jump start knowing anything about pleasing women.
I also recommended the best sex guide SEX AND THE PERFECT LOVER by MABEL IAM, just the best...
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Summary: Hey Guys!
Review: I haven't read this book. I gave it to my girlfriend as a gift after reading the overwhelmingly positive reviews here at Amazon.
I met my gfriend about 14 months ago. How shall I put this? I think I might have once gone to bed with a dead fish that exhibited more bedroom spirit than this woman. She's a young (mid-30s) widow who didn't have much experience aside from her husband, and he was obviously not very demanding.
I spent a year with this woman, being very patient and offering guidance in a gentle manner, with only limited results. It's not that she wasn't trying, but she seemed burdened with an intractable mindset that wouldn't allow her to relax and "break free."
Enter this book about two months ago. Whoa! I don't know what she read in here that caused the change, but she has begun to take more initiative and my feelings of frustration are far less numerous these days. She was always attractive to me in a physical sense, but now she's oftentimes downright SEX-AY! ;)
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Summary: A clear and elegant introduction to the art of love-making
Review: This is an excellent how-to sex guide primarily intented to help female lovers to make their man happy in the bedroom, but since the author was taught lots of tricks by a gay man, the book will also prove useful to gay men who want to be expert lovers.
The techniques are relatively simple and explained in a totally explicit AND clear way. There are excellent drawings for the dummies (buying a dildo in addition to the book will make it definitely easier to learn all the great hand jobs). Most of the book deals with things you do with your body: kissing, hand jobs, fellatio (oral sex), positions, etc. There is a chapter on sex toys and one on STDs. The tricks and techniques which are not physical (clothing, perfumes, etc.) are also covered but you will find more on this particular field of interest in "203 Ways to Drive a Man Wild in Bed" by Olivia St.Claire.
While Paget's approach is quite straightforward and focuses on techniques, she makes it very clear from the start that she favors the traditional sexual ethics. The whole discussion is based on the assumption that one has only one sexual partner (ie your beloved husband) and that the goal is life-long faithfulness. She does speak of her gay friend Brian but there are no references to gay sex in the book. It's all for straight couples. Another feature of the book is that it contains no hot stories to whet your desire to try the techniques and no "extreme" practices, although anal sex is also described and recommended.
Lou Paget basically teaches you to make love-making an art and to be slow, imaginative and careful, which is great. The language is elegant and not vulgar throughout, an outstanding quality in my view.
My only (strong) reservation concerns the chapter on STDs, which fails to tell readers the whole truth about AIDS. That a virus named HIV causes the complex of diseases conveniently labeled "AIDS" is only an hypothesis, and one that (in my view)has been successfully challenged by competent virologists such as Peter Duesberg of Berkeley University (on this read "Inventing the AIDS virus"). Recreational drugs, not sex, may be the real cause of all the trouble! It is also a shame that an author who claims to write on sexual matters and STDs should fail to point out the fact that HIV-tests produce tons of false positives and are thus quite, quite unreliable.
Lou Paget also neglects MMOs: male multiple orgasms, and speaks only of ejaculatory orgasms. As if Kinsey and more recently people like Mantak Chia had never revealed that MMOs exist and that males can have orgasm without ejaculation!
Nevertheless I highly recommend this book since it is what it claims to be: a manual that teaches you accessible techniques to increase sexual pleasure for men.
A word of caution: although most of the techniques are easy to learn, you may soon discover that trying them in real situations may feel somewhat awkward or artificial. In the end, I guess that for most readers only a few tricks will prove useful and feasible. So if you are a good lover already, just keep your money.
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Summary: what ?
Review: The theories of How to Be a Great Lover don't hold up at all and seem to be based on nothing more that the author wishful thinking
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